*shrugs* Hey, I met my one true love a world ago. It's not my fault that I'm following the family line of dysfunctionality. *looks at you thoughtfully for a moment, wondering how you're coping with the loss of your boyfriend but, really, isn't quite in touch enough with his sensitive side to want to provoke tears and a deep and meaningful conversation about boys*
I think the poster-girl for normal relationship is probably your cousin Itarillë.