*with a hint of exasperation* I think we have already established that your mother's opinion is not to be trusted so let's disregard that, for a start. As for annoying Ecthelion at work? Well, would you agree that that was attention-seeking behaviour? It's understandable, of course, but not precisely the behaviour of someone who is secure in their relationship. It is something to bear in mind for the future, Glorfindel. You have spent long, long lives knowing that you are indispensible yet in this life, you need to be told it, frequently. You are the same person but I've often found that former Quendi frequently have self-worth issues now that they are mortal.