*with a lopsided smile* Very little is ideal. I'm convinced we wouldn't know what to do with ideal if it stopped by and said hello. Probably try to kill it with homemade cookies.
she'd assumed I wouldn't be involved
*does realize she's still adjusting to the very notion of unplanned pregnancies, though*
*sighs and smoothes your hair back* And they she shouldn't assume such things, of course, but you...you are far too guarded for your own good, cupcake. *shrugs* I'm sure it isn't easy for her. Still, she has accepted what she wants to do? Will she let you be involved? And what are "traditional arrangements", anyway? *brushes aside visions of painful custody battles*