*looks up at you quietly while you process that, more than happy to pace the conversation right down*
you and she are...?
*slowly* Not... exactly together, for a few months now. Which would have been the last time we... *hand waves* Any how she's some ways along. *sits up and scrutinizes the level of coffee left in his cup* She's moving to Ossiriand, she wants to raise the baby (oh my) here.