Teddy/Calliope
I mean, everyone who lives here, or was born here just sorta gets used to weird stuff eventually, ya know? Some of them are inconvenient, especially to the greater magical community since we're all used to taking magic for granted sometimes.
You and Dora are kinda similar, you know? My mum told me that the first time Dora called her "Mum" she absolutely flipped out. So if there's anyone that might understand your position, it's her. I mean, to be fair, I think Dora's got the biggest heart out of most anyone. So I'm sure she loves you loads and loads, just like I love you too, nephew!
Besides, it's not weird to want your parents to love you. They should love you. Which is why sometimes I feel really bad for my mom since her parents were dicksrubbish dicks. I met them once during a particularly bad Preyan flu, and let me tell you. They are THE. WORST. people imaginable. I don't know how she turned out normal. That Druella Black was a piece of work!