The circumstances are that you don't remember who I am. If you're going to let someone magically examine your mind there are two things that you need to consider. First, that they're magically competent to do it, and second, that you trust them enough with something so personal. I'm not at all offended if I don't meet that second criterion. I'd consider it sensible of you.
When you and I were friends, I didn't know James very well. I assumed that he hated me, like the others from your time, even though we hadn't spoken. I'm sorry that it took something so awful for he and I to get to know one another, but at the same time I'm glad that we did get to talk more.
I thought it was very pleasant, yes. You used to visit for tea.