No. 1940. My family are - I suppose you'd say very conservative, for the time. I always found that the way to do what I wanted was to co-operate in all the small and unimportant ways, and then make the big decisions myself.
I have a cousin here from the 1800s. He's sweet, but I'm very glad I wasn't born then.
I'm sorry. I hope you find a way to figure it out.