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I know it's more difficult to keep clean without magic, but I also know that muggles are capable of it. There's no excuse for being filthy, really, or for anyone who is capable of working to beg instead. Some people are too young or old or sick, I'm quite aware, but they aren't the ones I mean.
I can think of a few girls back home who would object very much to being called 'soft and stupid.' They aren't all that way. I don't think you're any better or worse than the men who are like you, no.
I can hardly tell you what you deserve. I don't know you well enough for that and it isn't my place to. Muggle law isn't like ours.
Do you think I'm going to blub because you suggest that my father might have abandoned me? You're hardly the first to say it. Some people like saying hurtful things. I know him better than that, though. He'll be looking, and either he'll find me or I'll find a way home, whichever comes first. Is Jack your husband? I think he'll find you, too.