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I'm certain that I never will. We all have our own trials in life, I suppose. Some of us stay home and do all the mending and don't see any merit or glory in wars, just suffering. I'm pleased that he has someone who understands how he feels. It must help a little.
Here is what I can do for you. There isn't any reason you shouldn't be counted as part of the broader magical community. I like to hold dinner parties to promote co-operation and cordial relations, and the next time I do, I'll invite both you and the Alphas that I know.