I don't think I've met very many of that last sort. I like the ones who are kind and protective but not childishly uncivil, overly-controlling or just downright terrible.
I'm very aware that men go to bars and gentlemen's clubs and say things to other men. I don't care much about that. They will do what they will do. It's having a sense of the right place and time for it, that's all. When they don't, I worry what else they're capable of.
Oh, but I do think the local law enforcement might have a lot to say if I took you at your word there.