I do know that gentlemen don't like to have their health fussed over. It'd just seem awfully callous not to say anything at all.
Now that was quite an undertaking! My parents first had to be convinced that it was alright to allow a girl to celebrate the end of her schooling by taking a trip to France, with a suitable escorting party. Then it was Italy, because of the classics, you know, and bit by bit I was able to continue my travels to more unusual places.
I discovered several ancient curses. I had the 'flu when I was a child of three, though, and curses cannot travel backwards in time! It was a clever suggestion, though. For a muggle.
I'm certainly not going to pry into your misfortunes, goldfish-related or otherwise. But I hope I never lose sight of the strands of meaning that I do find.
I appreciate your not terribly successful attempt at delicacy, but I've never experienced medicine at all. Only healing magic. Perhaps it works differently - I send for the healer to visit me at home, and he or she works spells or suggests potions, and then I pay the fee. It's all quite straightforward.