Cassi / Sadji
I hope not! It isn't something either of us is ever going to forget, but hopefully it will soon lose its importance in his mind.
They're children who, instead of gradually being trusted with adult responsibility and taking their place in the world, are told it is normal and natural for them to be rebellious and disobedient. And so they are, and some of them remain unruly children until they are past twenty because of it.
I'm sorry, that doesn't quite make sense to me. I'd imagine that fear, abuse or a desire to be perfect would make a child unusually quiet and submissive, not the opposite.