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Oh, very little can prepare you for it - except for counseling with a professional.
And you know this to be true of him for certain? Because if that is so, then he shouldn't be any sort of healer.
That sounds quite lovely to have so many friends. There was no education for us. We were poor farmers. We owed much to Pharaoh's accounts so my father and mother bartered and I was given to Pharaoh as a slave. He found me pleasant to look at like an ornament for His palace and after I earned His trust, He allowed me to study to be a Scribe. Most people didn't know how to read or write the markings so it was a great gift.