I suppose he wishes to just do right by your family and overcome the obstacle. I have an older sister who does the same.
Private Not much to say other than what you've said of your own family. We were always a well respected family in our community and things started to change. We thought we made the right decisions to uphold our values and beliefs, but we only got deeper in trouble. My eldest sister sacrificed everything for this cause, my middle sister was completely disowned. Things grew worse and I came here for protection.
I feel like I was the one trying to go about everything with a normal attitude, but it wasn't enough to keep everyone together.