"Exactly" the Doctor replied with a nod of his head. At least, that was the way he had come to understand things. From people going away and coming back, from the time people were allowed to visit home. The conclusions drawn were simple.
"Give yourself some time" he smiled kindly. "No one can expect you to just feel better about things. To adapt to this new place in the blink of an eye. But if you get to know this place and the people here, before you know it, things will be all right" he added. "What sort of things do you enjoy doing? What places do you like visiting?" he asked. Maybe he could point in her a few directions? Possibly. He wasn't sure as to how much help he was being but he'd try his best.