"So far, I haven't freaked out. I can't guarantee it won't happen in the future, but that was the entire point that needed to be bashed into my skull - the future doesn't matter, it's now that does, and whatever happens we'll deal with it as it comes. So in this moment, in this now, I want to be with you in a relationship that has a romantic bent," Oliver said.
"Sex is sex. I'm not so concerned about the male part. Inserting tab A into slot B is a male-female goal, not when it comes to two males. With us, it's just about what feels good. It's been close to a decade, but I remember that much.
"Sex doesn't make a relationship, though. It's a part of it, and there's no denying that I want you that way, but messing around like we're only friends with benefits is not what I'd like this to be." Oliver shook his head with helplessness. "Does this make any sense?"