"No, Oliver, that's what you plan to do, and whether you get to do it or not, it's really not up to you, me or anyone else. I think there is a lot bigger at work than our desires to go home," she said. "I want to go home, too, but I want to go home with my husband and my children. I want to do whatever we can with them. I'm not asking you what you want to do, but with whom."
Savannah looked at him expectantly. "So, what is it that you want, Oliver? More importantly, who's at your side when you do what you want? I really can't answer any of that. Only you know the answer, and if Tommy is the one, then you tell him, and if he's not, you tell him as well, because it's the right thing to do. Stringing him along is the worse you can do. I know it might sound crazy and people talk about dating, seeing different people, but look around you, look at all the people in this group, there's no looking, dating, seeing other people. There is your soulmate, and there's only one. And if Tommy is that, don't let fear of getting hurt or of not going home or of being too soon, or whatever other fear you have stop you, because you will regret wasting time, but mostly you will regret hurting the person that means the most."