"Because I'm told that most people are too stupid to say what they feel, because they are trying to avoid the possibility that they will get hurt more and since you obviously rejected him already, why is he supposed to open up to you?" She did smack him this time. "You can't give him space, because you don't have the chance with the current situation and because you're his best friend."
Savannah nodded. "Yes it is that simple. I didn't ask whether you want him in your life. That's so irrelevant, because he already is and will be whether you want him or not, just like every member of this group is. It doesn't matter if you like someone or hate him, they re still a part of your life. You don't get to pick that."
Right, back to the fact that men were idiots. "You are thinking about it now. It doesn't matter what you did before and with whom. You're here, and in case you haven't noticed, relationship here are forever. There's no much room to cheat either, but none of that matters either. Close your eyes and picture your future. Is he the man standing by your side? Is he the one you always want to go to when you're down? Is he the person you picture when you are on one knee, handing him a ring? Is he the one holding your hand when you're sick? Is the one that makes your day better and makes you smile? You know I asked Sean the same questions, and they did take some time to figure things out, but they didn't know each other. You do. Close your eyes, open your heart, and then you'll know, because it is that simple. The relationship itself might not be, but knowing whether he is the one or not, that is that simple."