"What does that mean? That Sean is an adult and therefore Sam doesn't care? Or he doesn't care about his daughter and grandchildren? Sam left them at home, because we were all home. Now, he sends his son and daughter into danger. What? He doesn't care if they die? He doesn't think he's putting them into the line of fire?" She shook her head. "You know what? I don't even know where you've been for the past few months. They could all disappear, they are family, they are the best fighters we have, with the most knowledge. They are the ones who could really disappear and be out of the line of fire, but they don't hesitate, they don't put the kids or each other first. They put the mission first. So no, you're nothing like Savannah or like the rest of them, because they have honor, and I admit that I didn't get it. I've been happy to stand back and hope that nothing happened, but that doesn't make me a good person or right, it makes me a coward, and I don't compare myself to them. I know better. So don't even think of doing the same."
She sighed. "You told me now, and I still don't see any reason you should talk to each other that it's not selfish. And you know what? That's fine. You can be selfish. Not everyone is selfless or we'd all be cops and soldiers. Just don't pretend to be better than you are; that's all."