She listened to him patiently, intently, just letting him get it out, not interrupting. She understood what he meant, she knew what it was to feel that passionate about someone, to be confused and not know how to choose between two people that you cared for. It wasn't easy. She had to smile a little at his description of the feelings because she'd been there herself. "How did the whole thing with Sebastian come about?" she asked him, not refraining from saying his name, it wouldn't help or change anything.
"Obviously, that particular situation isn't one i've been in, but you know who my friends are, i've seen them go through it. And it's ok you know, to not to be sure. You don't have to be one or the other," she assured him. "But maybe it'll help to talk about how you got involved in both situations romantically?"