private.
You're basically the ten minute All Too Well on repeat tonight. It's allowed. I still love you. I'm still going to be obnoxiously optimistic for you. Do you want to find someone to get laid? Because, I can wingman that for you, and you might feel a tiny bit better.
Your pessimism isn't entirely without merit, and I know how things are. But she makes me laugh [...] and I like her too.