private.
See, so I can't trust that even if I ask. I know what I have to do.
But seriously, I'm not going to try being your therapist if you aren't okay. So "actually Yelena things suck a whole lot because zombies but also I miss my dad, and you can know that but I don't really want to talk about it because who are you even" works just fine. If that's the way the truth is.