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I don't have any proof, but right now you don't have any proof to support your theory either. If that's something you want to risk, then fine.
What makes you think I'm encouraging her to give into despair? I feel like I'm being pretty level headed about the matter.
Ask Rose what she wants, don't assume. Don't manipulate. She has options, and I'm offering myself to help. If she wants you to do it, and you're willing to help her that way, then so be it.