PRIVATE.
I don't disagree. I'm taking measure of the choices made and why. There is no binary on who is right and who is wrong. There never is.
I had a disagreement with him weeks ago that turned out regrettably. I don't think we recovered from that. Perhaps we won't. But I'm not so hypocritical to shame you your decisions or tell you your business with him. It is helpful to know he has such a weapon at his disposal, however.