Re: private.
I want to? This Julia comes from a particularly dark time in her life. She's betrayed us before, she's helped us before, she sort of murdered all of Fillory's talking tree population...
The problem is she's from a few years behind the rest of us and there are certain events in her future that if she hears second hand from us instead of experiencing them herself...? I honestly don't know how she's going to take it or what she'd do.
I normally do, more or less, trust her. I just don't trust the her that we have. Or what she'll do if given a nudge in the wrong direction. That's not even going into her shade issue