PRIVATE.
Stop making assumptions about what I think about your feelings. Especially when you know this has nothing to do with Julia.
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I specifically asked that our relationship remain between us. But you felt it was necessary to tell Margo, a woman you barely knew, all about it. When you found out what Julia did, you didn’t come to me. You went to Natasha and told her. You told her my secret despite the fact that you knew it was something I wanted to keep to myself. You went behind my back instead of waiting for me to decide when, how, or if I wanted to share it with you. And the week after my death, when you came to check on me, I asked you not to touch me. I’m certain I don’t need to explain why now. That should have been clear by the way you found my body. But not a few minutes afterwards you did exactly what I’d told you not to do.
If you really cared about me you would respect my privacy. You would honor my choice to resolve my problems the way I see fit. And on three very important occasions you did neither.