PRIVATE.
We all put ourselves in boxes. We all let other people put us in those boxes too. The truly brave thing to do is kick the shit out of the box and build something new.
Being happy doesn't always mean falling in love. For some people, it's a fulfilling job that means they're making a difference to someone, somewhere. To someone else, it's having a child. It's varies from person to person. We need to find what makes you, this Loki you want to be, happy.
And then we'll work together to make it happen. I'd like for you to be happy.