"It was before we had the kids," he nodded. "And after. I don't think she said that to them too, but I was the one home with them most of the time. She said I should stay home because I wasn't very good at my job anyway. Joke's on her, I loved being a stay at home dad. Best job I ever had. We disagreed on parenting stuff a lot too. She said I was too easy on them. She didn't like it when I let them cry, because 'boys don't cry' or some nonsense. She said I coddled them. I just thought she was strict. How did I- How did I have a decade long abusive relationship and just not know. I feel sick, Will," he said, putting his hand over his stomach. "It makes me feel sick."