Boy, that was a rather large question, wasn't it? "I don't know if I do know who I am," Cathal admitted, considering her words. "Not any more than you do. But what I do know is who I don't want to be. I figure if I keep fighting to not make the mistakes of my parents, then I'm on the right path." Or maybe it was the wrong path and he was selfish and should get over everything, but he couldn't see that happening any time soon.