"Of course I'm not okay that you tried to do that. Henry-" Iestyn got up and wrapped his arms around Henry's shoulders to pull him into a hug. "I'm so glad it didn't work, and that you got help. You are so important and you matter. I love you." Hearing that someone he cared about had been in pain, even years ago, was quite distressing for him, and he wasn't sure of the right way to react. Maybe he was overdoing it a touch, but it was better than under-doing it and pretending it wasn't a big deal.