She was happy to follow and set her other hand on his arm as well. "You're both strong in your own ways. You felt things, he did and hid them." She shrugged them, "neither of those methods of coping are good ones."
"There's a difference between helping, and using it to hide from what you know is life. Work can be a crutch just as much as other things can." She gave a smile then, "oh he will. He doesn't realize that he's got a bit before I call my sister in England. I don't think he got I don't make empty threats. He'll learn to listen to his heart, like you do. Honestly it's what makes you a touch better. Padraig is logic. Faith and logic don't mix well."