"I think this is a sitting conversation," she said, taking a seat beside him. "I always say it's better to be honest about it and if you want to try something, bring it up. But I also know I'm a bit more forthright than other people. I think saying 'I really enjoy our sex life, and I was wondering if there was anything else you maybe wanted to try. I have some ideas too, but only if you're comfortable with it' tends to go down well. That way the other person doesn't feel like you're not satisfied. Instead you're just looking to experiment."