She chuckled to that, "good. You shouldn't have tired to let her win anyway. It's never the winning that's truly important. And if it is, then somethings wrong." She smiled to Aislinn and finished her meal. "If I'm prying let me know but why was her cousin here? She said she'd spend a few days here, but was there reason for it?" She made a face, "now I sound like I'm judging you."