She shook her head and settled her free hand to where he was rubbing. "I know a few things so that doesn't happen, and well that was kind of the intention." She released his scalp and his hand and pulled her hair up, bunching it a little "don't pull near the scalp, just like this. And if it does sting I'll just stop until it doesn't any more. Also back of the neck is fine with me. And move if you like. The whole, letting you know comes back. Same for you. If I do anything that hurts or you're not fond of it, let me know. Never think I'll be upset okay? Plenty of time to figure it all out."