- Yeah, honestly, LL, this is not stress and wedding jitters. - I've never planned a wedding, but I'm reasonably sure stealing things and threatening death on anyone who tells is not anywhere in the orbit of "normal" bridezilla behavior. - Alright then, test. If I had sent you, what would you have done? And would you have been able to tell if she was playing you? People in these position play those closest to them the easiest. - Last time we all talked about this, and I brought up the possibility of jewelry not being enough for her, you said she'd never hurt anyone that she wasn't like that.