I get that. But. Telling me "not everyone is a fan of it" is like saying "Oh, great. You and your penis' opinion is invalidated, but let me virtually stand here and tell you that because I don't like it, and I don't like this situation, so clearly you must be notified that this situation sucks despite the fact that it's fairly obvious because there should only be one opinion about 'live action porn' even though no one was talking to me, and I decided that this girl clearly can't speak up for herself or her opinion so let me take over the situation here."
Also, is there a method to the madness that seems to suggest someone is orchestrating who gets what memories? Because otherwise no one is forcing a person to have these memories. They're just happening. Which is fate's way of slapping you in the face. Does that make it okay? No. It sucks. Like walking in on a murder. Or finding a dead body. Or being in the wrong place at the wrong time and finding a bank robbery-in-progress.