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Patched? That would imply that we've gone back to the way we were. We have agreed to remain friends. Our last parting was amiable enough. I wouldn't recommend you talk to her about a wedding dress if I didn't feel she would comply nicely. I can talk to her for you if you want.
If you want to return to Chicago then fine. Hard to get laid by your new fiance two time zones apart, though.