Of course they don't get laid. Or rather, they don't get laid by men. They are lesbians--women loving women, who transcend the toxic Phallic--and would never desecrate their women souls by allowing a man to rape fuck them. (Because the vast majority of all m/f sex is rape, you know.)
"Radical lesbian feminism" is a political condition more than a sexual orientation; it includes the notion that all free-spirited women are supposed to be lesbians because that's the only way to overcome the influence of the phallocentric mainstream. No woman can truly consent to sex with a man, because all men are in a position of power over her.
_allecto_ and dis_senter are both in their twenties, and, I believe, attending college. Which means neither of them has much experience outside a sheltered world where radical ideas are encouraged as part of one's personal development, and neither of them has had a need to obtain friends more than a few years older or younger than themselves. They don't need to empathize with housewives; they can just declare them "dupes of the patriarchy" and bemoan how their lack of enlightenment is holding back, umm, whatever their goals are.