Jean/Ororo
I can't say that I'm an expert, but I don't think what you're feeling is wrong. You had no choice in what happened to you. That you came back to a husband in love to someone else is hardly your fault. I can't say that it's his, either, but the time between you doesn't negate the connection you once had. Or the one you still have. Wanting to know his intentions is entirely within your rights.