[ You know he probably wouldn't want to be seen dead in here (hah!) if it had been a few months prior, but it's no big secret that Spike's found himself in some weird sex constellation and quite frankly, he doesn't want to be the one to screw it up. It's strange and foreign and he can't just do what he usually does and follow his heart. Love isn't the only thing in play here. Nothing is easy and everything sucks.
So, he attends, surprisingly serious, surprisingly quiet, intent on gleaning some advice off other people rather than talk all that much himself. For once, he's miles outside his comfort zone. ]