No, just meant you shouldn't obsess over it. It doesn't change what you were going to do. Don't let it bug you. [He does not believe for one second that she will actually do that.]
I get wanting to run away but this place makes that impossible. You've got to find some way to live with him that isn't going to make you lose your mind. [Not very good advice, and probably not something he would be able to listen to, either. He knows how hard she worked, both at the relationship and the DF and they're always going to feel wrapped up together.]