[She doesn't want the messenger to get hurt the worst here, but he's also the one she feels most hurt not hearing it from sooner. Still, she does understand and she knows he'd never intentionally hurt her. She doesn't want to make him feel worse. She's just not ready to make him feel better either. Not to leave him hanging or make it worse, but because she still needs time to deal with it on her own. She doesn't want to say all is forgiven and then leak passive aggressiveness because she wasn't really ready.]
I don't think it'll be long. You can still come to the karaoke bar if you want. I need to talk to Ton about this too though so I'm pretty sure the mood will be awkward at best.