You've got to admit it's a bit of a mystery today. [Spike's looks are a plus but there not the reason he's dating him. If he's okay without knowing what he looks like Ianto is okay with it too. He untangles their fingers to stroke his hand lightly along the side of his - her? - face.]
You still look like you. Scar's still there, and your hair is the same color. Similar length, too. Everything else is you, just softer, I suppose.