Sometimes. [How can she not admit that considering how things went with Reid. It's not that she ever stopped loving him.] But don't let their games yesterday ruin this. Clearly there are things to work on, but you didn't actually try for twenty years. It's been one day. Remember that even when it doesn't feel like it.
[She looks thoughtful, wondering if she's the best person to ask. She's not sure people always find her easy to talk to.]
Ask him questions? Remind him that you love him and want to be with him. [That last part never seemed to work for Reid, but it would have done wonders for her.]