[He nods at the Spike stuff as he pours himself a drink but, yeah, not really feeling like actually talking about Spike right now!
Besides, her question demands some thought.]
I don't know. I mean - I thought I did! Since all the Spike stuff happened we've had to do a lot of talking. And even apart from that... I've shared so much with him since we've been here that I never would have done before. About things that have happened in the past, things that have made me who I am. [All the stuff about Ianto's death, for instance - not just the facts but how he coped, or didn't, afterwards. And Alice and Steven. Estelle.]
I guess I never realised he wasn't really sharing a lot back, you know?