I understand that, Kitty, I really do. I'm not saying he has to share every deepest darkest secret he has. I just want to be able to feel like I can have an actual conversation with him once in awhile. And right now I don't. Whenever something is bothering me, even if it's something between the two of us I go to Spike with it, and I'm starting to think that isn't healthy. For any of us.