Got that right! We both like being in the action, don't we? [It feels good to be reminded of what they have in common.]
And hey, you're not lazy! Not when there's something you want, at least. You go after it tooth and nail! [A sidelong glance.] Like the way you've thrown everything at making this thing between the three of us work.
[And hey, here's the arcade, which is a good way to head off the conversation before it gets too serious.]