Thank you! [He leans back again, with an ostentatiously heavy sigh.] I was starting to think I was the only one here who got that! [He shrugs a shoulder.] Well, I think Ianto gets how I feel about it, because he knows me so well, but I'm not sure it works quite the same for him.
[He frowns slightly, because he doesn't normally analyse these things too much, but he's started to recently for obvious reasons!] I think in some ways kink is something I've pushed him into, to some extent. I don't mean he doesn't enjoy it, but I don't think it's a deep-seated need with him like it is with me.