[He watches her react with a tinge of amusement but mostly relief that she's as stoic as he expected about it.]
No, I'm not really looking, especially not for the sex side of things. Even though the rules would seem to be rather more relaxed here-- [Lifting his left wrist, where the wide leather strap of his vortex manipulator is normally accentuated by the blue of his sex band] --things are delicately balanced enough between the three of us that I wouldn't be eager to try and add someone else to the mix!
No, it's more just that lately I haven't really found anyone else here who actually has a background in BDSM. I've taught Ianto a lot, but all of that has come from me. It'd be refreshing to have someone to talk to who really understands what drives it all, you know?