[Oh, just spit words out and be blunt Rebecca. It's your specialty.] Well, okay here's the thing.
I'm totally cool with using them. In fact I probably will. But I'm not saying you need to with me-- but you'd be totally welcome to. I just never really breached the subject of bondage and dildos with you before and I probably should have before starting this conversation or waving around leather paddles.
[Ahem.] We haven't really talked kink before... have we.